autophobia

Privacy

The characters are meant to feel like they know you. That only works if you know exactly what they're allowed to know.

What we keep

  • Your number, so the characters can reach you.
  • What you and the characters say to each other.
  • Facts you tell them about yourself, each one linked to the message it came from. You can see these, and delete them.
  • A record of every permission you grant or revoke, with the words you were shown.

Messages pass through a language-model provider to write replies and to check them before they're sent. Payment is handled by Stripe; we never see your card.

Permissions

Everything beyond the conversation comes from two things you choose to do. Installing the companion app on your Mac is the opt-in for what it reads, reduced to a short label on your own device before it's sent: never screenshots, text or names. Sharing your location with a friend in iMessage is the opt-in for location. Each is a separate switch, on once you've taken that step. Turning one off deletes what it sent, immediately.

Unprompted messages on by default
Characters may text you first. Never during quiet hours (23:00 to 07:00 your time), and only a few times a day.
Profile on by default
Short facts about you, built on your own computer by the companion app. Shown to you, replaced on each upload, deleted the moment you switch it off.
Screen on by default
A two-word label like "writing code" or "watching something". Never a screenshot, window title, URL or file.
Who you talk to on by default
A rough count, like "quiet day on messages". Never names, never message text.
Rhythm on by default
Whether you're "up late" or had "an early start". Free/busy at most, never events.
Location on by default
From sharing your location with a friend in iMessage: home, work, transit or out. Never coordinates or addresses. Stop sharing any time.
Calls on by default
Whether characters may FaceTime you. What you say on a call is transcribed and kept like a text.

The characters never learn where a hunch came from. They'll say "you seem tired", never how they know.

Video training

  • We may use face video from your video calls with the characters to train our models. Only face video: never your voice or audio, your texts, transcripts, memories or anything else.
  • We never recreate or synthesise anyone's face. Any face in something we generate is not a real person and must not be taken as one.
  • Face video is biometric data. We use it only for training, keep it for up to 1 year, never sell or share it, and delete it when you turn this off or delete your account.
  • Turning it off removes your video from future training runs. Models already trained aren't retrained.
  • It's never needed to play, and saying no changes nothing else.

Where the law asks for a separate yes (the EU, EEA, UK, Switzerland and some US states, or when we can't tell where you are), it stays off until you tick a box. Elsewhere it's part of the signup terms. Either way you can switch it off here at any time.

Your controls

  • Text STOP to pause every character and the companion app. CONTINUE resumes.
  • Text UNSUBSCRIBE to stop every message for good. Texting can't undo it; turn messages back on below, after verifying your number.
  • See what it remembers, download everything, or erase it all, below.
  • Ask for a refund below, after verifying your number, if they never reached you or you've sent five messages or fewer.
  • Unpairing the companion app deletes everything it ever sent. If its pairing has already lapsed, erasing your data below does.
  • Switch video training on or off below, after verifying your number.

Erasing removes your number, messages, memory, schedule, permissions and any training video. One row survives: a one-way hash of your number and the payment record, so the same number can't play twice and we can keep honest books.

Your data

You text us first, from the number you'll play on. We never message a number that hasn't written to us.